Thursday, July 08, 2010

good advice.

I’m a pretty impulsive person. I do things without thinking. I don’t set much store by consequences. Sometimes I really don’t care. Particularly when it comes to boys (and girls, actually). I’m fickle. I’m changeable. I change my mind more often than I change my socks. I’m also very, very stubborn. All of this makes for a dangerous concoction.

I got some advice the other day. You know those friends who you love and adore and whose opinion you trust beyond the beyonds but who are sometimes a little too honest? I have one of them. Because I’m so fickle and I change my mind so frequently, he suggested that if I (think I) like someone, I should let five different opportunities pass without kissing them. The idea is that if I still want to kiss them after five missed goes, then I must like them. Properly, like. You know, rather than just thinking I like them ‘cause they’re there and they smell nice. (Wow, I must be a sucker for pheromones.) Good advice. It could work. I will try to put it into practice but I don’t know if I can overcome my impulsivity.

Wish me luck or something.


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